Scientists
have been studying brain waves and reactions to certain elements for years and
have found it very difficult to discover why people abuse others and different
ways.
Parents/Family
A lot of
people abuse others physically and verbally because it`s something they learnt from
their parents. Either they`ve seen it or it`s been done to them. It seems
natural and they don`t understand. When people have grown up being the victim
they know how it feels and that it doesn`t feel good physically or mentally.
Therefore, they`d rather be the abuser. They want to see how it feels to be in
control. <
Mental
health issues or disorders
People with
mental health issues that abuse, mainly have anger management problems or
suffer from drug or alcohol abuse. These people often resort to physical
contact to relieve the stress or the pain that they are feeling. Other times
it`s when they can`t control themselves and their brain decides what they do.
They don`t have control over their body and their minds, making them abusive
towards others.
Relationship
control
When
someone is in an abusive relationship it`s because they`re partner wants to be
in control. When you`re in a relationship it`s about compromise but they feel
like you guys need to follow one person and one person only rules. They abuse
in different ways to let their partner know that they`re in control.
Self-esteem
The last reason is when someone feels poorly about themselves and try to make others feel worse in order to feel better. They want to boost their self-esteem.In my opinion, all these reasons are crazy except for the people with mental problems that physically can`t control themselves. If they were abused, then they know how it feels, so, they shouldn`t do it to others because they know that they didn`t like it. Also, if their self-esteem is bad they should try making others feel better , that way they`ll make friends and it will boost your self-esteem because you`ll have better friends.
Bibliography:
http://www.mentalhelp.net/poc/view_doc.php?type=doc&id=8482
http://www.loveisrespect.org/why-people-abuse
